“All human wisdom is contained in these two words – Wait and Hope.”
Written by the Count of Monte Cristo as his renunciation of his project of vengeance in The Count of Monte Cristo, by Alexandre Dumas. French novelist and playwright Alexandre Dumas, was born on this day in 1802 (died 1870).
I’ve seen the movie, and I’ve read an abridged version of The Count of Monte Cristo. I’m far from an expert on the story, but it’s basically this: Edmond Dantès is falsely imprisoned, befriended in prison by a man who tells him of a hidden fortune, escapes from prison, and seeks his revenge. In the end Dantès finds peace. Read the book. Or at least watch the movie.
I don’t like waiting. I certainly don’t have the patience of Dantès. Although I will admit to often comparing my less than palatial day-job office space (there’s a long story there) to Dantès’ cell and wondering if building maintenance would notice my scratches on the wall to mark the years of my imprisonment.
Unfortunately, when I do eventually get out I doubt that I will find a hidden treasure.
I digress.
Or do I?
In college, oh so many scratches on the wall ago, I was part of a ministry team called “Future Hope.” Our name was based on the scripture from Jeremiah 29:11.
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. (New International Version)
Followers of Jesus know that that hope is eternal. It doesn’t mean that things are going to be settled and fabulous here on earth. In fact, Jesus only said he’d be with us, not that it would be easy.
So, how then do we look at waiting and hoping while we’re here on earth?
I realize you may have a different belief system, or no belief system at all. My job is not to change your mind. My job is to give you a reason to ask why I have this hope.
I don’t always do that very well. I’m not being a smart-ass (this time) when I say the struggle is real.
For me, it’s hard to think of a hope for the future when I’m facing the crap I have to deal with this week.
Not to belabor the point, but we’re once again facing unexpected car repairs. I didn’t budget for this. Don’t get me wrong, we’re incredibly blessed, but times like this are a pain when we have to sort through this account and that account. In this case, the juggle is real.
It’s hard to wait patiently for these times to pass and to look toward that hope of the future.
At the same time, it’s actually easier sometimes to look to the future and forget to be thankful for all the good the present has to offer.
In my Self-Journal(affiliate link), I’m encouraged daily to write three things I’m thankful for in the morning, and again in the evening.
True story: Sometimes I’m merely thankful for surviving this $@#%(&* day.
And, that’s okay.
Life’s a balance. Waiting and hoping for the future doesn’t give us license to sit on our ample backsides until everything falls in place.
Dantès didn’t do that. He dealt with the years of imprisonment in a dark, damp, stinky cell. But with the help of a prison mate he learned to make himself a better, more-educated man. He had a hope for the future and while he knew he had to wait for it, he also worked to get there.
Your circumstances may suck today. But, there is hope. There is a future.
What that future is depends on your attitudes and actions of today.
Mark Twain once said “The secret of getting ahead is getting started.”
Reminder: USA Today Critic Lamented How ‘Dunkirk’ Lacks Gender, Racial Diversity NewsBusters
USA Today’s Brian Truitt wrote a rather positive review of Dunkirk, but still left a little room to take issue with the movie’s lack of diversity, writing, “…the fact that there are only a couple of women and no lead actors of color may rub some the wrong way.”
Walk and learn
Sarah L. Smith at Medium
My feelings about walking are not a commentary on the need for more exercise, or the obesity problem or even the act of walking per se. There is a bigger picture here that I fear is hard to see from inside the frame. It’s about what we’re missing by not walking; and what we’re losing along the way: our ability to coexist.
English sailor and priest, John Newton, was born on this day in 1725 (died 1807). Newton penned the words to one of Christianity’s most beloved hymns.
UPDATE AND DISCLAIMER: It appears that I had faulty information, or that I was careless. Newton was actually born on August 4. My mistake. Thank heavens for grace.
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