Aug 31 2015

I’m trying to remember about September

Image: Joe Beck via Unsplash

Image: Joe Beck via Unsplash

And some things that should not have been forgotten were lost. History became legend. Legend became myth.

- J.R.R. Tolkien, The Lord of the Rings

The other day, I told myself I wasn’t supposed to be this busy until after Labor Day.

True story.

Granted, I missed the annual clearing-of-the-head week at the beach. But still, there was supposed to be a bit of slow down.

I crack myself up.

You know I’m pushing the writing thing. You know I’m pushing the novel thing.

You know I struggle with the yard work.

There was also the realization the other day that for the first time in like, ever, I will have gone an entire year in which I had no break from being in a show. Either in rehearsals, or performance, or gearing up for the next one.

And, because I’m bad at math, when I started writing this post I was thinking that a new project (not yet to be discussed) was taking me from four to five shows. Instead, it’s five to six.

Granted, my involvement with each of those shows varies, from being a cast member to being a cast member/producer, and in one case, writer and director.

Oh, and did I mention my writing work? I think I did.

Most years it would just be a recognition of too much to do. And it is.

But most years I could make it work because at least the day job is stable. It still is. But the last few weeks have meant daily rides on the Crazy Train.

No, I won’t elaborate.

All this is to say, I’ll make it work.

I’ll get the important stuff done.

Some projects have already moved further down the list. I don’t like that. But those are choices I have to make.

There’s nothing on my plate that I didn’t put there. Well, except the office crazy part. I can’t do anything about that.


I don’t feel the stress of going back to school, but summer is ending and there’s work to be done.

Lots of it.

Google calendar don’t fail me now.

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Aug 28 2015

Stormy Weather



Everyone has been posting storm memories this week.

Ten years ago tomorrow, Katrina slammed into the Gulf Coast.

I’ve seen friends posting about Hurricane Andrew that struck southern Florida with a vengeance some 23 years ago this past week.

And in Virginia, there was Hurricane Camille, which hit the Gulf Coast in 1969 first but the storm continued north and , while no longer a hurricane, caused massive flooding in Virginia.  Nelson County was the worst hit, some 153 people died in Virginia alone.

It’s funny, I suppose, how those of us in the Southeastern United States remember periods of our lives based on the names of storms.

I remember I was on the Outer Banks of North Carolina when Alex came over in 2004.

I remember the horror of Isabel coming directly over our house in 2003.  The devastation in the neighborhood.  The weeks and months it took for many things to return to normal.  We were without power for 10 days in our neighborhood.  We finally arranged dog care and left town.  Seriously.

In 1996, Hurricane Fran left much of the Richmond area without power for days.  On one side of town folks were getting ready for the Fabergé Ball at the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts.  On the other side of town it was the NASCAR race.  We worked with the photographer for the ball.  We got showered and dressed at the YMCA.

I’ve had this conversation with a good friend a number of times.  He’s from California and is fascinated by the references to the named storms.

For him, it’s the year of the earthquake.  Or the size of the quake.  Or maybe it’s the year of the wildfires.

Regardless of how you remember, traumatic events like this leave lasting impressions.

I’ve never suffered severe hurricane damage.  Many of my friends have.

Sure, the aftermath of Isabel was miserable.  I remember coming to work day after day and a coworker asking if I had my power back.

“Do I smell like I’ve had a shower?”

I digress.

Katrina and the Gulf Coast will always be significant for me.  I watched in horror along with the rest of the country as the storm pounded the city.  I saw and read the horror stories of people not being able to get out, of the nightmare of being inside the Superdome.  I watched as the levees failed and nearly 80% of the city was flooded.

I wanted to help.  All I could do that the time was to send some unused camping equipment by a friend.  I hope it got to the right place.

Almost immediately our church sent recovery teams, and later reconstruction teams.  I wanted to go early, but it wasn’t until 2008 that I was able to make my first trip.

The devastation was still horrifying.  As it was when I returned two years later in 2010. If I could, I’d go back again today because there’s still much to be done.

I don’t really view my life in terms of the storms I’ve endured.  Sure, I remember them.  Sure, I don’t want to live through them again.

But the thing about storms is that, at some point, the sun shines again. Sure it may shine down on a lot of mess and debris.

Southern Florida recovered after Andrew.  Although while I’m writing this we’re not sure what impact Erika will have.

Much of the Gulf Coast and a lot of New Orleans recovered from Katrina.

Truth is, New Orleans will never fully recover.  Still, it’s a wonderful and amazing place.

I wrote a novel about a post-Katrina relationship/life.  It’s in the editing stages. Literally.

We can’t stop life’s storms from coming. But if we pay attention, we can learn from the last one, and perhaps be better prepared for the next.

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