May the Force Be With Me

I know. I know. I’m getting ahead of the game and am going to spoil all of the May 4th jokes.

We’ll still hear them until our ears bleed.

Still, at the teenager’s insistence that his Mother needed to see it, we did watch The Last Jedi on Friday night.

But I’ve been thinking.

I’ve talked a lot about how much I have to do. About how many opportunities there are out there. About how many choices I have to make to not do something because I just can’t do it all.

But, I haven’t talked much about all of the things I don’t want to be doing.

Sure, last Monday I wrote about taxes. I didn’t want to be giving that much money to the government.

However, unlike many other things, that is not a choice.

No, this occurred to me…actually last Monday on the day when I talked about taxes, and on Tuesday when it was just a little harder to get up.

Not because of the taxes, but because we started rehearsals for Doublewide, Texas on the Sunday night prior, and suddenly every moment of free time that I have is precious…and should probably be used for sleeping.

Instead, Monday morning I dragged my more than ample carcass out of bed and made it to the gym.

I did it again Tuesday, and Wednesday.

In fairness to me, I did not go on Thursday because I had to leave town at 6:30 for a meeting in the valley (that’s the Shenandoah if you’re not from Virginia). I did go after I got back into town.

And, yes, I made it Friday.

What I’m telling you here is that my day began at 4:45 in the morning, and generally ended around 11:00 p.m. at night.

I’m no mathematician, but even I know that’s not going to get me a full eight hours of sleep. And that’s assuming I’m actually asleep by 11:00.

Still, and here’s where we get to what I’m talking about. I forced myself to get up. I forced myself to to go to the gym.

I did not want to.

But, I also know that when I force myself to go to the gym I am always happy that I did.

Funny how that works.

So, I force myself to go to the gym because I need to.

I force myself to go to the office because I need to.

See where I’m going with this?

There are a lot of things in life that we must do, even if we don’t want to.

So, we have to force ourselves to do them.

Call it determination, call it endurance, call it stubbornness.

But life is all about getting up and doing what needs to be done.

Doing the things we have to do, even when we don’t want to, makes us stronger.

Well, except for taxes. They usually make me angry. Or broke. Or both.

Granted, some days we’re better at doing the things we don’t want to than others.

Also granted, some days we have to force ourselves to slow down a bit. To take a break.

The challenge is being able to balance that out and not go too far to either extreme.

I don’t always reach that balance.

Over the past few weeks I’ve spent some time sorting out how I’m going to do what I want to be doing while adequately maintaining a balance on what I have to keep doing.

My theater dance card for next season is filling up.

But I can’t go off and do all the fun things while ignoring the not-so-fun, but essential things.

Darn it.

Publisher’s Clearing House, why must you continue to taunt me?

I digress.

It’s Monday.

I forced myself to the gym this morning.

I forced myself to the office.

Weather permitting, I’ll force a walk at lunch.

We do what we have to do, even if we have to force ourselves to do it.

Right now, I have to force myself to stop rambling and get this posted.

It’s Monday.

Use the Force.


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Short Story Friday: The Library

I’m continuing the pattern of posting an original short story on Friday. Today, another that I wrote for The Mighty Pen Project.

Here’s The Library.

Sam struggled to ascend the concrete steps to the library door refusing to use the ramp installed by library volunteers. Barely compliant with the ADA, and one of the last remaining original libraries, this branch had yet to be replaced by the sterilized industrial complexes plaguing the county.

He loved the brick exterior with the white columns. He even loved the concrete steps in all their difficulty to maneuver. At the top of the stairs, he stood to allow his breathing to return to a normal pace.

Inside he breathed in the musty, stale smell of old books, usually the smell of research or the smell of adventure. Not today, and not for the past two months.

At the circulation desk, he signed the log to use the internet. Mrs. Grayson, the librarian for more than forty years, gave a knowing nod. She understood that his time on the computer would exceed the standard limits and he understood that she would not force him to leave. She returned to her duties, a lioness patiently waiting for the weakest gazelle to speak too loudly.

Sam logged into his account. He ignored the spam emails and went instead to Google where he searched the news for articles about the murder. Certain that he had read them all, yet checking just in case to see if more had been written.

He found the Times-Dispatch article. He found the Pilot article. He found the Channel 6 report.

He blamed himself for what happened to Sharon. A silly argument at his apartment sent her walking home alone. Sure she’d done that before without any problem.

His sponsor told him that everyone grieves in different ways. Sam grieved by rereading the stories of Sharon’s murder. The stories gave every gruesome detail but missed the point of assigning the blame to Sam. He didn’t even remember what started the stupid argument. But Sharon insisted that with his foot in a cast, she would be fine walking home alone.

Over and over he read different news accounts of the story. Accosted. Robbed. Murdered. They caught the bastard that did it and he hoped they fried him. He read the articles that he had read countless times before. It didn’t matter. He still couldn’t believe it.

Emotional grief became physical aches. He didn’t know how to go on without her, but he would make certain this never happened to anyone else he loved. To make sure of that in the two months since the funeral Sam completed his concealed carry class.

Knowing Sam’s love for writing, his sponsor encouraged him to blog, or journal, or just write out his feelings about what happened to Sharon. He’d been doing that for weeks now, saving the stories to a flash drive he carried on a lanyard around his neck. His sponsor didn’t know about the concealed carry class.

He found no more news articles and, just as he did every evening, he began to write. For weeks he told the story of the argument, Sharon walking out the door, and the call from the police. This night he told a different story.

I came home from work late and found Sharon in the kitchen cooking her delicious vegetable soup. She served it up with fresh bread. After dinner as we washed the dishes. We were almost done and she asked about the new woman in my office.

“Is she cute?”

“Yeah, kinda.”

He deleted the last two lines and tried them again.

“Is she cuter than I am?

“No one is as cute as you.”

She smiled and planted a soft kiss on my lips.

Sam’s fingers furiously pounded the keys as he rewrote scenario after scenario of that evening. Each of them leaving Sharon alive and unharmed, usually because he walked with her carrying his handgun.

Sweat beaded down his forehead. His arms ached. Still he continued. Page after page. Story after story.

Sweat mixed with tears. Shallow breaths between the sobs.

He wrote up until closing time when Mrs. Grayson put a soft hand on his shoulder signaling time to leave. He saved the files and bid her goodnight.

“Get some rest, Sam.”

A familiar smell pervaded the hallway of the apartment building. Sharon’s homemade vegetable soup. The bastard cooking that had no heart.

The key turned in the lock and the smell became stronger as he opened the door. Tomatoes. Onions. Garlic.

Through the kitchen doorway Sharon turned and smiled.

“Back from the library so soon?”


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