What you wish for determines how you’re spending a juicy part of your day. If you wish for something you can’t control, that might fill you with frustration or distract you from wishing that could lead to productive work.
Some 44 years ago this month my freshman class at Asbury University (Asbury College at the time) presented our Freshman Talent show Impossible Dreams.
I could go off on a tangent explaining why a variety show meant so much to college freshmen at the time. But that would involve trying to explain what college life, and life in that small town in Kentucky was like at the time. If you’ve been a part of it, you understand. If you haven’t, I’m not sure that I can explain it.
So, let’s just say that my experiences there are a large part of who I am today. Let’s also say that four-plus decades later, I’m realizing missed opportunities as well as what an incredible blessing that was on my life.
Back to the talent show
I performed with a couple of ensembles, the most notable of which was a barbershop quartet that sang a song about a particular aspect of our college lives. Again, if you know, you know. If you don’t, I probably can’t explain it to you.
As noted, our theme was Impossible Dreams from, of course the main song from The Man of La Mancha.
And let me say that, while I’m pretty sure I’ve aged out of the part, I could have at one time played the lead. But, let me also say that if you’re casting, I could still rock the part of the Governor.
I digress.
One of the songs we sang in the talent show was When You Wish Upon a Star from Pinnochio.
Again, I’m not the lead, but if you’re casting Gepetto…
So, Seth’s post made me think back to that time of our talent show. A time that was more innocent. A time when your headlines were filled with the Iran hostages, gas lines, and the Presidency of Jimmy Carter.
We were young. We had dreams. We were going to change the world.
Impossible Dreams, if you will.
I was chatting online with a college classmate yesterday. We were lamenting the twists and wrong turns of the last 40 years. I won’t go into our conversation here, we may include some stories in our books. And his book will be published before mine.
I’ll just say that we both recognized that we’re no longer the young, and if I must say attractive, men with big hopes and dreams.
I’m not wishing on a star anymore, but I still have hopes and dreams. It’s just that these days I understand more about the concept of having to work for them.
It’s also true that I’m wishing for a lot of things that are out of my control…the end of a pandemic…the end of this cancer diagnosis… a 32-inch waistline.
Don’t @ me Karen, I was not called to wear skinny jeans.
For that matter, no man is called to wear skinny jeans.
I digress.
I’m not sure that I still have the energy to reach for that unreachable star. Most days it’s an effort just to ask Alexa to turn on my office lights.
Seth concludes:
Better to wish for something where the wishing itself is a useful act, one that shifts your attitude or focus.
So, I’m attempting to shift my focus to wish for some practical things.
Maybe, just maybe, I’ll find some productivity along the way.
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