My Writing Story

In full disclosure, I am participating in the Writing Contest: You Are Enough, hosted by Positive Writer.

I always wanted to be a writer. In fact, I told myself for years that I wanted to be a writer.

I had this dream of writing in an oceanfront cottage. I’d be wearing my cardigan with patches on the sleeves and typing out the next Great American Novel (™) on an old Smith-Corona typewriter.

I always wanted to be a writer. Someday. But, the someday I was looking for never came.

Then, not long after I turned fifty, I found a book that changed my view on writing. I got a copy of You Are a Writer (So Start Acting Like One) by Jeff Goins. It was a game changer.

Suddenly, like a bolt of lightning, or perhaps more like an incandescent bulb, I stopped saying “I want to be a writer” and started saying “I am a writer.”

Rather than someone stuck in a dead-end job wanting to write his way out. I became a writer with a day-job to supplement my addiction. I mean my career.

Across social media I began to identify myself as a writer. On my own blog(s), I began calling myself a writer, not just another guy with a blog.

Ask me who I am? I’m a writer.

Ask me what my job is? I’m a writer.

That perspective changed everything.

No, it hasn’t (yet) landed me on The New York Times Bestseller List.

Yes, I still struggle every day to find the right outlets for my writing.

For a while, I wandered around the political blogs. I got a lot of statewide attention, and on an occasion or two, had my articles reach a national audience. But politics got a little too weird and I put that behind me.

Multiple times over the past eighteen years or so, I’ve participated in Nanowrimo (National Novel Writing Month). For the uninitiated, that’s a writing challenge where you attempt to write a 50,000 word novel in the month of November. I’ve done that successfully five times. Those five books are in varying stages of edits before being submitted to a publisher.

A few years back, I took a detour from the novels and began work to turn my grandfather’s World War I diary into a stage play. That play, Clean Dry Socks: Diary of a Doughboy, was produced in 2018 and has now been published on Amazon.

I took a while to get beyond the point of just trying to write to make money. Don’t get me wrong, I’d love to be paid for everything I write. But I worked for a couple of content mills and that just wasn’t where I was going with this.

That time helped me to see that I’m really writing for myself. If I get published and other people read my work, that’s great. Even better if I get a check. But that’s not the main reason I write.

It was my other project that helped me get to this point. A few years back, during a particular low point at the day job, I started a new writing project. I vowed to write at least a thousand words a day on my way to developing my writing income. I titled the project How I Wrote My Ass Out of Hell.

I’m still in the day job, and that particular crisis has passed. But I’ve managed to consistently write at least a thousand words a day for the last four years.

I write because I have to. I have this need to put one word in front of the other. Maybe if I’d read Jeff Goins’ book in my twenties and not my fifties the career path would have changed. Maybe not.

I prefer to look at my life up until now as source material. And, I keep writing.

Because, I’m a writer.

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What I Used to Be Writing Here

It’s October 2nd. For years, well maybe at least once or twice, I’d have a post about how quickly September had gone and how I wasn’t quite sure that I was ready for October.

Well, it’s too late for that.

I’d also post something schmaltzy about that song…you know “Try to remember…”

It’s from the musical The Fantasticks. I saw a fine production of that show over the summer. I must admit though that it’s not one of my favorites.

Still, it’s better than Annie. (Come on, cute, but WAAAAAY overdone.)

I apologize for nothing.

But, yes, it’s October.

I’m in the middle, or the early beginnings of working as a Haunt Monster, or scaractor, if you will, at Kings Dominion.

It’s exhausting, but I’m having a blast. Although, truth be told, sometimes the scariest aspect is my costume after six hours in ninety-plus degree temperatures.

In the meantime, I’ve got my rehearsal schedule for Winterfest. I’ll be back in Tinker’s Toy Factory. Those rehearsals start the week after Haunt ends.

Yard? What yard?

I have two shows, well, actually three, that I’m already working on for next year. Details when it’s time.

And yes, I’ve been doing some writing. Just not here.

I’ve written a script that needs a lot of edits.

I’ve written a one-act as part of a project for Richmond Playwright’s Forum.

I’ve written a post (coming soon) for a writing contest.

I continue to write at least a thousand words a day. Sometimes I write good ones.

And, in the best of all news, my play Clean Dry Socks: Diary of a Doughboy is available for purchase on Amazon.

So, you see, I really do have reasons (not excuses) for not posting here.

I’d say that I’m going to try to do better, but I’m not a politician and I don’t do empty promises.

Speaking of politics, if I haven’t said this before Twitter is a cesspool.

I digress.

So, October. I’ve lowered my standards for yard care. No, seriously, they can go a little bit lower. I’ll get the leaves out of the front yard, or at least mow them under. The back will be more mulchy. It’s healthier that way. No, seriously.

If there are summer regrets, I didn’t see enough beach. We’re already making plans to fix that for next year.

If there are fall regrets, I’m not sure when I’ll be able to light up the fire pit. It will probably have to be a weeknight which seems a bit weird. But, we’ll make it work.

In the meantime, I’m writing, I’m acting, I’m directing, I’m designing…and yes, I’m still in the day job.

For now.

In the midst of all that, I have some October goals.

At least one firepit. Because I believe by faith that the temperatures will eventually drop.

Watch It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown, at least once.

Watch Young Frankenstein, at least once.

And, I get to see The Rocky Horror Show on stage this month, among other things I’m trying to get out to see.

So, busy. But, a good busy. As I’ve said before, nothing is on my calendar that I didn’t put there.

I’ll write here when I can.

If you want to encourage that, feel free to send me your leftover chocolate.

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